The grave finally found after years of searching

Written by Kolbeinn Tumi Daðason

(News Director of Stöðvar 2, Vísir, og Bylgjan) - Link to the Article in Icelandic September 18th, 2021

Translated by Bryndís Víglundsdóttir

Sunna Furstenau standing in front of the map of Iceland, the land she has visited twenty-one times and enjoyed all the visits. (photo: Vísir/Vilhelm)

Sunna Pamela Olafson-Furstenau's roots are in Skagafjörður, Eyjafjörður and

Langanes. She has however lived all her life in the United States. The same is true about

a great many descendants of the Icelanders in N-America.

Most likely there are, however, few as proud of their roots as Sunna. For the last eight

years she has shed “blood, sweat and tears” working at the organization, Icelandic Roots. One more visit to Iceland this summer proved to be of a very special value as the grave of her great grandfather was identified in the cemetery of Sauðárkrókur. Sunna had been looking for the grave and researching the church books for years with the help of a local historian and cemetery warden.

Sunna has just returned to her home having been in Iceland for over three weeks visiting the land of her ancestors. She traces her mother's family to Ireland, Scotland, and Norway but her soul feels connected to Iceland. Every single day. She is so closely

connected to Iceland that she sometimes is emotionally overwhelmed.

Sunna is the mother of two grown children and as for grandchildren, she is simply

wealthy. They total eight.

They call me amma, says Sunna proudly. They use the Icelandic word for me! They follow several Icelandic traditions, such as placing their shoe in the window when

the thirteen yule lads are coming from the mountains, one each night, and leave small

presents for the child in the shoe.

Has made 21 visits to Iceland

Sunna's visit this time is her twenty-first visit to the land of her ancestors. On her

travels around the country, she has given numerous presentations. Sunna's goal for this visit was for the most part seeing her relatives and friends and just enjoying the stay.

Sunna established in 2012 and has been the director from the very beginning. Icelandic Roots is a public nonprofit foundation concerned with Icelandic genealogy, heritage, and keeping the connections strong. About sixty persons dedicate their time as volunteers working on various tasks including a genealogy database. People may buy admission to the database and the profits are given to various causes, such as the Snorri Program, educational grants to individuals and institutions concerned with Icelandic cultural affairs in Iceland and N-America. Here we can mention the Hofsós

Icelandic Emigration / Vesturfarasetrið and the East Iceland Emigration Center /

Vesturfaramiðstöð in Vopnafjörður.

About 650 persons have bought a membership to The membership

for three months is $45- but for a year $150. “Over the past seven years, the memberships have helped us by awarding over $102,500 USD in scholarships and heritage grants!” And this does not include 2021 numbers. And Sunna continues: “Some people become members and only want limited information. Then there are those who are not interested in information but want to support the cause. Others have been members of from the very beginning”.

This is a picture of Sunna's genealogy path as it appears on

Hoping for a better life

The strong feelings are clearly evident when Sunna is talking about her great-grandfather who emigrated in the year 1905. Her grandfather was from Skagafjörður and was one of those who left Iceland and went west, over the ocean, looking for a better life.

She talks about the bottomless poverty and hardships and in the end, people saw only

one possible solution which meant leaving and crossing the ocean over to America.

Sunna was very close to her great-grandfather when she was growing up. He passed away in 1982. He talked with much love about beautiful Iceland and there was Skagafjörður, his home, over and above everything else.

Of course, Sunna had a close look at the eruption site in Geldingadalur during her visit.
(photo: from a private source)

“My great-grandfather described the beauty and told me how he missed and loved Iceland”, says Sunna. Great many of those who left did not wish to leave their homeland but had no choice. In fact, this often was a question of life or death.

Found grandfather's grave having searched for years

The climax of Sunna's visit this time was a remarkable find in Sauðárkrókur. This was

not an item found to be removed but something found, recognized, and remaining there from now on. The find is the grave of Jónas Jónasson, the ferryman from Tjörn, Sunna's great grandfather. He is not as widely known as Jón Ósmann, the famous ferryman from Sauðárkrókur but he is mentioned in many books. Jónas was the ferryman for nine years.

Photo by Paolo Bignami via Twitter

“I have on many of my previous visits to Iceland been looking for the grave and have

been after Hjalti Pálsson, the editor and chief scholar researching and writing the

Byggðasaga Skagafjarðar (the historical all-inclusive account of the district

Skagafjörður) constantly asking him if he has yet found the grave.” Last winter. things really began to happen when Ingimar Jónsson who knows most everything about and on Sauðárkrókur located the grave.

“Hjalti and Ingimar walked me to a place in the graveyard and said: Here he is.” “I was just so overjoyed!”

Hjalti had also located a beautiful piece of columnar basalt that he is going to have

placed on Jónas's grave. A copper plate will be fastened to the stone.

The following words will be engraved on the plate:

“Jónas Jónasson. Ferryman from Tjörn”.

Baggalútur and Káinn

Next Sunna mentions Káinn, or K.N.; Kristján Níels Júlíus Jónsson, the West-Icelandic

poet, best known for his bitter but more often humorous verses. Káinn immigrated to

Canada from Eyjafjörður in the year 1877. He lived a few years in Winnipeg and later in

North Dakota where Sunna was brought up and is still living.

In the year 2009 Baggalútur released a CD “The Sunshine in Dakota” with their music to

nine of eleven songs set to verses by Káinn. And that is not all. Last year they released

the CD “Greetings” with thirteen new tunes set to poems by K.N.

Sunna standing by the monument of Káinn in Akureyri (photo from a private source)

Sunna mentions that Baggalútur mentions Icelandic Roots in one of their CDs. She talks about the day when Káinn returned home- if we can say so- to Akureyri in 2017. Icelandic Roots and local North Dakota people gave Akureyri a copy of the monument that stands in the Thingvalla church cemetery in North Dakota.

“I am just a country girl from North Dakota,” says Sunna who for years sat on the board of the Icelandic National League in Iceland and helped to bring the monument of Káinn to Iceland. On the occasion, there was a seminar in Akureyri, August 2017, honoring the poet and Sunna gave a presentation there.

Traces the roots of one family after the other

Sunna was brought up on a farm in North Dakota where her extended family lived on two farms, established by immigrants in her family. They brought the traditions with them over the ocean and she knew from an early age about her Icelandic roots.

Sunna gets by quite well in Icelandic although the interview has been conducted in English. In the year 2003 Sunna published a book where she traces the families of her mother following a line to Norway and Scotland and another line of her mother-in-law to Hungary and France. Then she turned to Iceland- to put it mildly.

Playing within the Arctic Henge by Raufarhöfn. (from a private source)

Sunna made contact with Hálfdán Helgason, a genealogist who managed an Icelandic database. That database was the encouragement needed to establish the Icelandic Roots Database, which Sunna and her husband, Jeff Furstenau, created in 2013. Since then, people who possess various expertise such as genealogists, computer programmers, data specialists, translators, you even meet a cartographer on the team of 60 volunteers using their skill to constantly improve

Cried with her sisters on Bessastaðir

Sunna mentions her visit to Iceland in 2017 and the tears begin to flow. This is when she was awarded the Order of the Falcon by the president of Iceland, Guðni Jóhannesson for her work on Icelandic Roots and for building bridges between Iceland and N-America. A special ceremony for Sunna and her friends was held at Bessastaðir as she couldn't be there on the traditional days when orders are awarded, June 17th and New Year's Day.

Normally, I come alone to Iceland but that year both my sisters were with me. They were with me at Bessastaðir. In fact, I was crying the whole day with joy, says Sunna and her eyes are brimming with tears.